Howdy! I've been thinking lately and one of the things I realized was how important communication truly is. Honestly, think of the world without communication. We'd be a hot mess. FYI I'm not talking about communication over text,facebook, twitter… Ain't nobody got time for that. I'm talking about real communication. Face to Face conversion or just a phone call. Using our words and explaining things is a hell of a lot easier to understand. Let's be honest, we've all been in a situation where we send a text or some other form of communication and it gets taken the wrong way. Either it came off in a different way than we meant it to or the person you reads it takes it wrong. You then have to spend the next some odd texts explaining what you meant, etc. Its just a hassle.
Thats were I'm at. I realized its so much easier to understand people when we don't hide behind a text message. Let's use our voice people. I get that its a pain to call someone or meet up to have an important conversion but it takes out about 80% of the miscommunication. And trust me, we all got time for that. I also understand that its easier to say what we want in a text then to someones face, but if you have enough balls to say it over text than you can get enough to say it to someones face. If you want or need to say it, THEN JUST SAY IT. Not saying it isn't going to help and what's the point of communicating if you can't say whats on your mind.
I've also realized another thing. If you have a problem with someone and need to voice your opinion or what not, its important that you do so. Also don't get other people involved. If its between the two of you, keep it between the two of you. No third or fourth person needs to get involved. It just gets messy and becomes a game of he said, she said. The lines of communication gets crossed and to be honest there really isn't a lot of communication.
So anyway I guess the moral of the story is communicate with each other. Not via text or facebook, that doesn't count if its important. You want your point to get across well. Don't cross the lines of communication, it has the possibility to get a whole lot messier than it already is. So pick up the phone, give whoever a call or set up a meeting. Miscommunication sucks and communication is key. It makes the world a hell of a lot easier.
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